If things are tough in your marriage ask these great questions from Martha Bolton's book
Still the One
What if she really didn't mean to say those hurtful words?
What if he honestly forgot your birthday?
What if the grass isn't greener on the other side of the condominium complex?
What if your problems don't last forever?
What if you're both wrong?
What if you discover the kids aren't better off without you?
What if you're throwing away something that's irreplaceable?
What if you can never get it back?
What if you didn't go?
What if you gave it one more chance?
What if you fell in love all over again?
What if this time things truly were different?
What if you made it?