Dr. Steve Stephens
Dr. Steve Stephens - How to Build a Great Life
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An excerpt from
Lists to Live By: The First Collection: For Everything that Really Matters


To laugh often and love much;
To win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children;
To earn the approval of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends;
To appreciate beauty;
To find the best in others;
To give of one's self;
To leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch, or a redeemed social condition;
To have played and laughed with enthusiasm and sung with exultation;
To know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived...
This it to have succeeded.

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Things not to say to your spouse

"I told you so"                                        "You're such a baby"

"I can do whatever I like"                         "I can't do anything to
                                                             please you"

"You're just like you mother"                    "Turnabouts fair play"

"If you don't like it, you can just leave"       "You get what you 

"You're always in a bad mood"                   "Why don't you ever 
                                                              listen to me?"

"Can't you do anything right?"                   "What's your problem?"

"You just don't think"                               "Can't you be more

"It's your fault"                                        "What were you thinking?"

"All you ever do is think of yourself"            "Do you always have to
                                                              be right?"

"What's wrong with you?"                        "You're impossible"

"If you really loved me, you'd do this"         "I don't know why i put
                                                              up with you"

"All you ever do is complain"                      "You deserve a dose of 
                                                              your own medicine"        

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